What it feels like to be betrayed.
It's like having your heart carved out with a spoon. When you discover you have been betrayed by someone you love and used to trust, your world is shaken.
It is devastating whether it's:
Full blown Sexual Addiction
All of the Above
Often you don't know how bad it is, and that makes it even scarier.
Do I want to save my marriage after an affair? Is it possible for my marriage to survive after an affair. If so, what can I do to save my marriage even if I can get over the affair? Whether it's an emotional affair or a sexual affair these same questions loom.
What it feels like to betray yourself and those who trust you
Disgust. Guilt. Shame. Despair.
It's not a good feeling when you can't look the person in the mirror in the eyes. When you have to lie to yourself about how bad it is so you can stomach yourself. There's no excuse, and you know it. That doesn't seem to stop you from making them to yourself and everyone else.
You are embarrassed and ashamed of who you have become.
You don't want to be this person anymore.
Is There Hope?
On your own? Honest answer: Probably not.
With help, maybe. It really depends on what kind of help we're talking about. If we're talking about people who are just going to tell you what you want to hear, that's no help.
If we're talking about "help" that's critical and condemning, without any real useful solutions, that's not going to be much benefit to you either.
Also of little use are professional counselors with little or no experience or training in these specific kinds of cases.
The Right Kind of Help.
What you want is help from a team of professionals who is familiar with these kinds of cases.
You want to work with professionals who have THOUSANDS of hours of experience helping people through exactly this kind of situation.
We have devoted our lives to helping people just like you.
We got into this field to begin with because we care about people. We spent 6-10 years in formal academic study and countless hours in post-grad study learning and staying informed of the best practices for helping people.
We focused our practice so instead of being 10 miles wide and 2 inches deep we have extensive experience with cases very similar to yours.
We do all this for YOU.
It's more than a job to us. Helping you is our calling.
We can help YOU
Here are 3 reasons why I'm confident we can help you:
1) We Really Care.
It's because we care that we do this work to begin with. There are a lot of easier ways to make a living.
2) We Understand.
Walking this road with so many give us unique understanding that's hard to come by any other way.
3) We are Competent.
We have prepared ourselves to help you, through formal academics, post-grad continuing education, intensive personal research, and consultation with the top minds in our field. We know they dynamics of your situation and will build a personalized plan to help you reach your goals.
What we are offering
We are offering to get in the trenches, bear this burden, and walk this journey with you.
To not be alone in this.
Have a reliable source for answers to your tough questions.
A neutral guide who's only objective is to help you heal.
Practical direction on how to change things.
Insight and understanding about how we got here.
A safe, understanding, and confidential person to share your story with.
Someone who knows how to make things better.
We deliver these benefits in 45-90 minute appointments 1-2 times a week.
(More frequently at first, less as things progress.)
No time like the present.
Problems don't spontaneously get better. They haven't thus far. Instead, they fester and get worse.
Don't let things keep getting worse. Start turning things around. Start today. Start by completing the "Get Started" form below. You'll be glad you did.